For a while there, it seemed like the city’s lesbian scene was going extinct. The bars were closing: Crazy Nanny’s, Rubyfruit, Meow Mix, Cattyshack, the Dalloway. But these days, there’s a refreshing renaissance happening in womyn-centered nightlife. A wildly fun and wide-ranging array of events have popped up all over the city, and the remaining lesbian bars (Henrietta Hudson, Cubbyhole, Ginger’s, and Bum Bum Bar) are more vibrant than ever.
J.D. Samson — DJ, singer, and New York City treasure — has created a queer monthly party “for anyone from anywhere wearing anything and loving who they want.” It’s full of positive people who are open to music beyond Beyoncé. Tylerkinesis creates vibrant video visuals to put you into a dance trance, and the dependable DJ Amber Valentine is also a resident. Union Pool’s big space allows for DJs in the front and back room, so you can mix up your moves or avoid running into your ex with ease. (Monthly; no cover.)
This friendly, fun dance night is hosted by drag performer Matty Horrorchata, who sprinkles her positive vibes over the night. Drag guests like Tyler Ashley, Miz Jade, and Patti Spliff present high-energy live performances; and Littlefield has a big dance floor to try out your Missy Elliott impersonation (or at least attempt it). The crowd is more mixed, but you can tell the queer men here love and respect their womyn. Empanadas and brownies are for sale, and drinks are cheap. (Monthly; $5 in advance, $10 at the door.)
The Bushwick queer scene suffered a mortal wound when the short-lived but legendary queer art space the Spectrum closed last year. Happily, its organizers have opened the Dreamhouse in Ridgewood, Queens. They have also revived their important night, Dagger, which caters to the “Lez” and trans community. With the ever-present DJ Amber Valentine — plus other talents like Tigga Calore and H.D., along with hosts Jacqueline Mary and Avory Agony — this night is all about making the genderqueer community central. Their cover-charge structure says it all: $5 before midnight for the “Lez and Trans World,” $10 after midnight, $15 after 3 a.m.; $15 before 3 a.m. for “homo Cis Dudes,” $20 after 3 a.m.; and “$50 all night for Str8 Cis Dudes.”
This weekly Friday dance-jam started in 2011, but now has settled at Boots & Saddle’s new, larger location in the West Village. The venue allows for a wonderful mix of ages and genders, from old-school Boots & Saddle regulars to NYU students to Sunset Park dykes to Hot Rabbit devotees. The hosts prefer to think of this as a queer party, but the following definitely leans female/lesbian-heavy with changing DJs, performers, and go-go dancers of all genders. $1 shots at 1 a.m.! (Weekly; $8, free before midnight.)
Bum Bum Bar
63-14 Roosevelt Ave., nr. 64th St., Queens; 718-651-4145
Queens’ Latino LGBTQ community has always been vibrant. One vital venue is Bum Bum Bar, where the predominantly female (but still mixed) crowd dances to salsa, merengue, and Selena. This is a down-to-earth joint where Queens residents can feel the beat, celebrate diversity, and let loose to classic Latin tunes mixed in with the latest Latin hits.
281 W. 12th St., nr. Eighth Ave.; 212-243-9041
This venerable, joyous corner watering hole is like being inside a piñata; the interior is bedecked with flags, streamers, beads, and multicolored flocking. It hasn’t changed much since it opened in 1994, and it doesn’t need to. The popular happy hour, Monday to Saturday (till 7 p.m.), is packed with regulars. There’s also $2 Margarita Tuesdays, and Sundays offer $4 Bloody Marys, mimosas, and Kir Royales from 2 to 7 p.m., as well as late-night specials. Don’t worry, the A, C, 2, and 3 trains are within stumbling distance.
Dyke Bar Takeover
An offshoot of the New York City Dyke March, the Dyke Bar Takeover is a scheduled invasion of a bar to give self-identified women, dykes, and nonbinary folks a place to meet, mingle, and feel sexy. The gatherings are usually in the daytime and support local queer artists, including Drag Kings and nonbinary performers.
363 Fifth Ave., nr. 5th St., Brooklyn; 718 788 0924
Way back in the ’90s, Park Slope was a lesbian haven. The neighborhood may have gentrified, but the lesbian bar Ginger’s (also known as the G-spot) has held on. This lesbian-centric dive bar of your dreams offers Sunday Bingo with Luscious Lola, happy hour Monday to Friday from 5 to 8, as well as Friday dance parties keep this place lively. With a pool table and spacious backyard, it is the area’s dependable spot for sapphics and their admirers. It’s also the place to be after Brooklyn Pride.